So I have something I would like to blog about but I won't because I don't want to be rude. Let me just ask, if someone did something to hurt your feelings would you tell them? I had an issue come up and I'm really hurt and frustrated about it. I'm actually afraid to say something because I'm too emotional and I don't want there to be a falling out over it, because that doesn't really need to happen. Does that even make sense?
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I definitly know what you are talking about. I had a similar situation come up a few months ago and I struggled knowing what I should do. After a while debating it in my mind and praying ALOT I decided to say something. I wish I could tell you it all turned out okay and it wasnt a big deal but it turned out to be a really big deal and she was really defensive but I knew I needed to stand up for myself and let her know how much she hurt my feelings. We are working at helping our relationship grow and it is better but it will definitly take some time. I have to say though that it was a good thing. I felt good about it and she knows how I felt even if it wasnt fun to hear. I hope that this helps. I dont know if you situation is similar but I know that for me it helps to tell the person and make sure that you always stand up for yourself. I hope that everything works out okay. Good luck. :)
I say say something. Just explain that your feelings were hurt and you love them and would like to work it out so you can have peace and the relationship can continue. :)
I'm sorry that life has to have frustrations like this. If I was the offensive one, I would want to know because I often do things that I realize later weren't taken as I intended and I would have appreciated people telling me so I could clear it up.
I would tell you to talk to the person (but then if it were me, I'd let it go and wish that I had the nerve to say something). There are so many people who have hurt me and I've just let it slide because I want to avoid the drama (one of these days I'm going to snap!). It seems some people like the drama, they feel entitled, or lack awareness for others feelings. There are givers and there are takers in this world..... if the person you're dealing with is a taker, it might just be better to leave it alone. But, if I hurt someone, I would want to know and would want to fix it. I hope it either gets resolved or you can just forget... I'm so sorry you're in this position.
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